An apology that is hard to scroll past
Say it properly, then let them answer. The No button shrinks a little every time they reach for it — but after a hundred tries it stops, and they can mean it.
Ways people have started
Pick the line that fits and rewrite it in your own words — the form opens with it already there.
What your link is already set to
Here the No button shrinks instead of running, because an apology feels less like a chase and more like resolve wearing down. It stops after a hundred tries: forgiveness you cannot refuse is not forgiveness, so a genuine no stays available.
- Who
- To one person
- Stubbornness
- 100 chases before they can refuse
- Evasion style
- Shrink — gets smaller every try
Before you send it
Isn’t forcing an apology on someone worse?
It would be, which is exactly why refusing works. After a hundred tries the No button stops moving and the answer is recorded as a genuine no. The link is a way to be heard, not a way to win.
Can I add a photo?
Yes, one, for free. It shows on the page you send, and you decide separately whether it also appears in the link preview everyone in the chat can see.
What if they never open it?
Your dashboard tells you that too — it shows whether the link was opened and whether anyone answered, so even silence is visible.
